| FAME | "If you come to ___ not understanding who you are, it will define who you are": Oprah Winfrey |
| YOGIBERRA | Baseball catcher and manager who said "If you come to a fork in the road, take it" |
| STARSIGN | One of dozen that some think define who you are |
| ROYALTY | "Everyone likes flattery; and when you come to _ you should lay it on with a trowel": Benjamin Disraeli (7) |
| NULLAH | What gulch, all unwatered, from the East will define? |
| EGOTIST | I will define my interests |
| ALTER | Equal terms will define change (5) |
| GETA | "It is difficult to _ _ _ _ man to understand something when his job depends on not understanding it." -Upton Sinclair |
| CHARLOTTESWEB | *Children's book whose title character says "If I can fool a bug, I can surely fool a man. People are not as smart as bugs" |
| ERSE | Old name for the Goidelic language of Ireland - of course, if you come from Eire, you just call it I |
| SUTCOMBE | I live between Bradworthy and Milton Damerel -- if you come by bus it only takes five minutes, or thereabouts (8) |
| THIEF | Robber, if the cap fits, you are it! (5) |
| ATWORST | "If the pessimists are right ..." |
| AINT | "If it ___ broke..." |
| LOSE | Nothing to it if you come at the end (4) |
| ROLL | It's best if this follows a tuck, if you come off at high speed. (4) |
| SENSES | What you come to when you come to |
| FOND | "Timothee chalamet it seems I've grown quite ___ of you tho there are no sexual urges or desires you come to me as a long lost friend whom I once picked apples with in papa's orchard" |
| BERRA | Yankee Yogi who's credited with saying "When you come to a fork in the road, take it" |
| CURACAO | You are, it appears, in the tree with orange-flavoured liqueur (7) |
